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New 12 rules that helps you to start a conversation with her over text.

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Already read so many articles about what to text a girl? You will find something unique and helpful in every steps below that may help you to start and hold a good conversation with a girl over text.

Girls expect a guy to initiate a conversation. On the other hand, guys usually overthink about the attention she might be already getting that is why we find it difficult to approach a girl the right way.

  1. Texts get boring very quickly for a woman.
  2. 78% of people don’t text their crushes because they feel that this will annoy their crush.

Why do we hesitate to approach a girl?

There could be many reasons and we usually end up saying that I’m shy to talk to a girl. BUT, 

I want you to discover what exactly your problem is. 


  1. You think you lack communication skills.
  2. You feel under confident about yourself it could be your body type, dress sense or the fear of rejection.
  3. Maybe you have no experience with it.
  4. Maybe you fear what to type next after the introduction

Your homework is to find out what exactly do you feel before initiating a conversation with a girl over text. 

There are different types of girl, but every girl wants a guy who can start and hold a good conversation.  

You need to follow these rules in order to keep her engaged in a conversation with you. 

Rule number 1: Type correctly, Do not type like this:

Hey, how r u doing?

Wt are u doing?

So howz lyf?

This is a huge turn off for her and she might not reply if you will initiate a conversation this way. Always type correctly and do not use these short forms at all. 

Instead of using these short forms: 

Type properly: 

Hey, how are you doing?

What are you doing?

So how’s life?

Rule number 2: If you are texting her for the first time, Do not start your conversation with a 

simple hey!!



 found you on this dating app.

The ratio of guys are more than girls that is why she will most probably ignore your text as she is already getting so many similar messages. It’s just a good day if you still get a reply with just a simple greeting. 

Rule number 3: Do not send her long paragraphs as a first message, It will make you look desperate.


I know just a hey won’t be enough. So here putting in some extra efforts. This is me from this place, left my job and blah blah.

You will end your conversation this way before it even starts.

You are texting her online to know about her, she is not interested in you yet. So, why would you tell her about yourself? You need to remember that girls like to talk more usually. So, instead of opening your chat with such long messages, wait for the right time and then send a decent and classy message.

Rule number 4: Do not write a poem or a quote as a first message. You will end up like other guys in her DM who never got a reply. It’s just a laughing content for girls and it makes sense. Nobody wants to read such messages in the first place.

Rule number 5: Even if you saw her on any dating app, Do not start your first message like 

 Hey, found you on dating app. Can we talk? 

Now the question comes What should be the first message in order to initiate a conversation? 

But before this, It’s also important to figure out: 

When is the right time to send her the first text message?

Wait for her to perform any recent activity on her profile. It could be a new story upload or a picture upload. The story could be anything but the chances to get the reply increases when it’s a meme or a quote or it could be anything related to general topics expect her own picture. REMEMBER THAT, you need to stand out. Instead of replying beautiful or hot when she uploads her own picture you should wait for her to upload something else because along with you there will be so many other guys who will compliment on her picture but you need to stand OUT! 

If there is a story upload apart from her picture then make sure you raise the question related to that story so that she gets curious to answer you.

For example: If she uploads a movie quote, ask her what movie is this from?

Or, If she uploads a story with music in her background, ask her what song is it playing?

If she uploads a story of the food item, ask her where is this available? And probe her further by asking did you like it? 

This works almost every time. But If it doesn’t work at least you have an option to un send your message these days.

If it doesn’t work, what are other ways to send her the first text message?

Explore her Account

Look for the picture in her profile which could be about the cafe, restaurants or any other place where the location tag is not mentioned.

You can forward her own picture to the direct message and ask what place is this? Add on a compliment This looks beautiful. Here, you will make the first move without even looking desperate. 

  1. Surprise her!! 

This is the third plan to grab attention from someone who is unknown to you. Make sure you use this step only when there is an activity performed on her account. 

For example: Reply to any kind of story this way:

Guess what happened lol 

Are you serious about this?

This is will create curiosity in her. It’s basic human nature. The obvious reply that you could expect from her after this will be “what do you mean or what?

You can reply to “guess what happened lol” this wayNothing haha, just thought to randomly ask someone to suggest me their favorite music. Is there any song you are listening to these days? 

If she suggests you the music, send her a picture of your screen listening to that music and let her know how amazing it was. This is how you text a girl. This will help you to initiate a conversation by using surprise approach

Similarly, Your reply to “are you serious about this” could be: Haha I know it can be weird, Just tried to grab the random attention for some good music. Could you suggest me any song you’re listening to these days? I have exhausted my collection lol. I hope it’s fine with you. 

She will generally reply yes it is and will suggest you music and then you have to repeat the above step again in order to hold the conversation.

Important: Key to success is holding a good conversation. You really need to hold it that is why many people get confused about how to text her after the introduction. Do not worry, we will suggest you more rules that will help you carry the conversation with her. 

Rule number 6: Do not ask her short answer questions. 

For example: 

So how was your day?

How’s it going?

So where are you from?

All these questions are fine but it could lead to the end of the conversation leaving you with no options to continue it further. You can ask the above questions in such a way so that it doesn’t end with just one answer. 

For example: 

 “I was wondering what did you do all day? Maybe I could figure out to add on something to my schedule too.

She might say there is nothing productive but still, she will answer you completely and in most of the cases girls get excited to talk about her day.

“It’s nothing I could do about my day, I feel disappointed haha anyway what about you? I was wondering is there anything interesting going on at your end? Maybe I could figure out to add on something to my wish list too.”

This is how you need to write your text messages so that she does not reply with a one-word answer.

Rule number 7: Be a little cheesy and flirty when you text. Make sure you don’t overdo it. Just compliment her or flirt with her in a very healthy way.

Timings matters in this rule, otherwise you might end up looking creepy. 

Healthy flirt examples and the right time: 

For example : 

She says “I have a headache” 

You could reply: That’s sad, I wish I was there right next to you and I would have given you a massage. 

This is how you can flirt with her in a healthy way at the right time. 

So whenever a girl is trying to express her pain, be sweet to her and make her feel loved. It is the best time to use such kind of cheesy lines.

Also, there are times no matter how good your compliment is, girls usually just say thanks or send an emoji to you or maybe they will tell you that I don’t know what to say. If you get any such reply, you need to understand why would she reply like that. 

You can say:  I understand you must be getting a lot of these compliments and it could be boring for you. Anyway, what is that you would like to change about guys in this world if it’s possible to do? 

This is how you will be able to figure out much more about her.

Or, you can say: haha, you don’t know how to take compliments right? I think you get confused when someone compliments you which is completely fine haha. 

For example: Ask her what do you prefer? Coffee or tea? 

To her answer, you can reply “Wish I could wake you up with coffee or tea in bed”  because I would love to take you out for coffee is too mainstream and she gets it every day.  

This is how you need to flirt with her in a very healthy way and timings matter a lot here. 

Rule number 8: Build a conversation in such a way where she will text you explaining more about her. 

Randomly ask her to suggest her favourite movie or song.

“Take a picture of your screen playing that music or movie suggested by her and send it to her. she will feel low key happy about it.“

I know a lot of people will ask you not to talk about her past, but I want you to build a conversation in such a way where she gets comfortable in sharing about it because this is how you will be connected to her in another level. After achieving this stage, you no longer have to worry about above-mentioned rules much.

Explore her account and see if she has given any signs about a recent breakup. If there is any, you could raise questions like:

If someone breaks your heart, would you still believe in love? Just wondering. 

This will make any broken heart people express themselves if you follow all the above steps correctly. 

Rule number 9:  Keep it light and chill. Send her memes in between conversation. You can also mention her in comments which will make her feel like you are available for her in many other ways instead of just holding a conversation. This lightens up the mood and makes the other person chill and comfortable to talk to you.

Rule number 10: stop interrogating like 

So what do you do? 

How old are you?

How many members are there in your family?

Do you smoke?

Do you drink?

All of this can be explored later with time, make sure you keep conversation sweet and she should feel like you are interested to know about her daily life instead of exploring her personal life. 

For example: 

What are your plans for today? I’m not able to figure out how can I make my day interesting today lol, maybe you could help me add on something to my schedule today.

Note:What do you do?” can also be used only if she asked this question to you first. 

Are you a morning person or night?

You can expect a one-word answer here like “morning“ or “night”. 

But after reading all the above rules, you should know that you have to hold a conversation. If she says “morning” then come up with a reply like: 

I’m sure it takes a lot of efforts to wake up early in the morning, Finding morning people is rare, how do you manage waking up early? Just wondering. 

Similarly, if she says “night” your reply could be:

Haha sounds relatable, I wonder how do people manage to wake up so early lol? I wish I could sleep on time but I fail to do so. Anyway, I wish we could binge watch series all night together with so much food to eat haha. 

This is how you manage to hold a conversation and end it with a healthy flirting at the right time. 


long holding message + healthy flirting = A decent impression on her that may help you receive a good response from her.

Rule number 11: Try to end the conversation before she says I will talk to you later but not Always.

This usually leaves a good impression on her if you end the conversation before her. It makes her little curious to know what will happen next. It also helps you not to exhaust all the conversation ideas in one go.

It’s better to end the conversation than to say “sup”  and “aur bata” repeatedly. 

Rule number 12: Response time should be managed properly.


If she is replying the moment after you text her then make sure you are also replying at the same pace. 

Different Situations: 

  1. If she did not answer your last text on time and reply back after a few hours then make sure you still reply on time If it’s a message where she is willing to start the conversation again. 

 For example:   

Hey, sup? sorry I was busy!

Simple Hey (  I know, that’s an irony. She knows a simple hey will give you signs to talk to her again)

You can reply such kind of messages on time, But the reply needs to stand out because here she might be giving you signs to initiate a conversation again but differently. If you have followed all the above rules properly then initiating a different topic in a conversation won’t be a problem. You could say: 

“Noo, It’s completely alright. You know what? I made coffee today. I wish you were here to share it with me!”

To this, she may reply “haha I wish that too”

Now again comes the holding part, tell her “What about coffee with me and a rapid-fire game right now?” 

This is how you can carry forward the conversation. Make sure you add different topics and elements to talk about daily that will keep her interested in your conversation. Do not forget to raise topics in such a way where she gets a chance to text more than you. Do not forget to be a good listener. 

  1. If she did not answer your last text on time and reply back after a few hours BUT the message is just an answer to your previous text then do not reply fast. Take at least 1-2 hour to reply. If this situation repeats again, you should take a day gap. Try not to exceed more than that. Now once again, start initiating the conversation again only if there is an activity performed on her account and follow the above rules again. But this time you have to be:

More comfortable and frank while initiating different elements in the conversation. Do not be formal this time and try to make her feel more comfortable by asking about her likes and dislikes and then add healthy flirting to every stuff she likes:

For example:  She says “I like dancing.”

Your reply could be: “Dancing? You like it too? I wish we could dance together with some good music on the rooftop.”

Here you can also add on a plan to it.

“I heard in XXXX cafe some amazing dance events take place. We should go there someday together.”

Make her believe that you are also interested in what she likes and add healthy flirting to it so that you guys form a different bond.

You can apply all the above rules in your conversation that may help you make new friends. I wish all of you the good luck and make sure your intentions and thoughts are clear before applying these rules on anyone. 

If you get stuck in any situation, E-mail us the screenshot of your text or write down your situation, I will reply to you on my own and help you get out of that situation. 

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2021: How to text her on Instagram Using Tips and Tricks

If you are wondering about how to text her on Instagram then stick to this article till the end.

What all you will learn from this?

You may find various other tips included here but it’s all-important for you to read so that It can make her feel interested in you!

Bonus: This article will help you in setting up your Instagram Profile as well.

Real dating apps like tinder are not very useful these days. The algorithm of almost every dating app has changed that may give you a few or no matches at all. This article will help you understand the following queries:

How to set up your Instagram Profile?

How to get her reply on Instagram?

How to slide in her DM?

How to approach her on Instagram?

How to find people around you like a dating app using

“Why Am I Not Getting Any Matches On A Dating App?”

Dating apps are just a collection of the same profiles which are already present on Instagram database. People still prefer downloading dating apps because it’s the only motive is to help people find a date.

Study says that “90 Percent of the time, people switch to Instagram in a few texts after they feel a connection with someone on any dating app.”
This process could be long and it may make you feel less confident if you end up getting no reply later.

The dating apps algorithm needs to be blamed. Matches have slowed down. But, Instagram got your back!

How to find And Text Her from Instagram?

● The ‘Explore’ option on Instagram can do wonders for you. It’s just like a passport to explore different people from all over the world.
● But it’s only used to explore all the public profiles on Instagram that are trending. If you end up texting those people then either you will be ignored or you may end up in a long-distance friendship. Do you really think I was going to say a relationship? NO!

This explore option is just like the tinder passport option. It’s nice that it exists. But it’s not worth buying it.

A) Instagram Profile

Before you make any move, You need to set up your Instagram Profile. Set up your profile on Instagram just like you do it on any other dating app.
● Add really good pictures.
● Create highlights of your work and your hobbies.

For Example: If you are into fitness then you can create a highlight about it because many people are attracted to intelligence and hygiene. This will mark a really good impression about you and they may not be able to stop themselves from texting you back.
● Avoid adding your shirtless picture as an Instagram display picture. This is usually a turn off for many girls even if you look good shirtless.
● Upload a profile picture that looks classy and decent.

B) Use Location

  1. This acts just like your radius settings on a dating app.
  2. Type nearby areas from your place on the Instagram search bar and you will see pictures of so many people.
  3. But, You will only see pictures from profiles that are set to public mode.
  4. Select the profile you like and text them on their story if they have posted something related to their interest.

For example: If they have posted a story about music or a movie, ask them “what movie it is or what music you are listening to”, this is how you can get her reply on Instagram. Try to divert your conversation to the location part (YOU know that they stay nearby) and act surprised when they tell you about where they stay. When Distance isn’t much, Even she will get curious to know about you.

C) Check your friends following list

Earlier back in the 1990s, people used to set up their friends if they were single. It is healthy and it is a safer experience as well. Also, this kind of relationship turns out to be successful most of the time.

  1. Check your friends following list and see who you like.
  2. If your intention is clean then you can ask your friend to
    introduce you to them. This works most of the time.

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Pick Up Girls In Delhi With Style| Tips and Tricks.

If you are wondering how to get laid In Delhi then make sure you read the last part as well. But, That last part won’t make sense to you if you don’t go through the whole journey of the Delhi night that I have personally experienced and based on my experience, I would love to share everything that helped me to pick up girls in Delhi. So, stick to this article till the end.

What will you get to know from this article that is written for you?

  1. How to pick up girls in Delhi?
  2. Best Pick up joints in New Delhi?
  3. How to get laid in Delhi?
  4. Best clubs in Delhi?

Start Small And Go Large!

You must be wondering how come an article about how to pick up girls in Delhi would ask you to start small and go large. There is a twist behind it.

Instead of landing up in a night club in the beginning, you need to start small in the first place. Reach Summer House Cafe on Friday or Saturday around 10 in the night. It stays jam-packed during that time but it’s usually empty on Sunday’s because it’s the rest day for most of the people in Delhi. People in Delhi usually get leave from work on Saturday and Sunday. So, your chances to Pick up girls in Delhi is more on Friday and Saturday night.

What’s Next?

Summer House Cafe is located in Hauz Khas, New Delhi.  This is one of the Delhi’s Cafe and Bar that I personally like because this is where you can pick up girls in Delhi much easily because of the cool mindset of the crowd over here. The manager of the cafe is bald who is rude and stupid. He usually stands at the entry gate of the cafe. He stops guys from taking the stag entry on Friday and Saturday night. I personally do not like the Manager of the club but it’s all worth it once you see so many girls around you inside the cafe.

How To Enter Inside The Summer House Cafe on Friday and Saturday?

A) Go Single If you want to pick up girls In Delhi.

There is no fun if you take your known female friend to make an entry inside the cafe. You will end up giving her time and this will make it hard for you to pick up girls in Delhi.  If you want to meet and pick up girls in Delhi, you need to read the article till the end. I’m from Delhi and I have applied all the tips and tricks mentioned below that actually works all the time!

A) Take The Stag Entry

[Stag: A person who attends a social gathering without a partner, especially a man who is unaccompanied by a woman.]

It’s not allowed to enter without a woman inside the summer house cafe but don’t lose hope because that’s the whole point! You will enter single but come out with a girl in the end because I have cracked everything for you guys.

How to get the stag entry?

Note: Do not try to convince the manager to allow you to enter without a woman because he will not allow you to do that in any case.

You should not be in front of his eyes without a woman because if he figures out that you’re single then all the tips and tricks to pick up girls in Delhi won’t work for you!

B) Stand At The Outskirts Of The Club.

Have a close eye at the crowd entering the club. You can stand near the parking where you will find the single girl gang coming from the cab or from their personal vehicle.

What’s Next…

Move towards any girl and ask her nicely! ”Are you going to the summer house cafe by any chance? ” If she says ‘ NO ‘. Just walk away nicely.

If she says ‘YES’ then let her know about the problem that “you are not allowed to enter the club single, would you please help me with the entry and we will get separated upstairs! ” 

In case you get separated upstairs, then do not worry! Thank god that it happened! You will be happy to see so many hot girls dancing around you.

How to approach a girl inside the cafe?

  1. Move towards the girl you like and ask her ”Do you guys usually party over here like this? Because I do not stay here ”.
  2. She will usually say “YESS!! ” then you can ask her further about where was she born?
  3. Human Psychology says that “people are always interested to reply about where they were born.”
  4. Compliment her gracefully with a smile on your face and make sure you have a drink in your hand ( Beer or Juice will work).
  5. Compliments are not about looks. It could be about their likes and dislikes as well.
  6. You can compliment her about her way of having fun in life. You can probably tell her ” Heyyy, this is so cool, It’s nice partying with you guys under the same roof”.

Note: Using the word “guys” makes it sound less desperate and that’s what you need to control. You should not sound desperate when you try to talk to her. You need to relax and sound chill out and use the word “guys” so that, the statement does not point at her directly. Otherwise, she might feel that you’re needy!

Most Valuable Trick:

If you think the conversation is about to die then before you walk away, Ask for her Instagram handle nicely and tell her that you might ask her about other cool places to party for the next weekend because according to her, you’re new to Delhi.

  1. She will probably think that you’re a party freak like her.
  2. She will probably be nice to you because you’re new to this place.
  3. She will think you just need help.
  4. She may agree to join you for the next party if she doesn’t hang out much with her own group.
  5. This trick works for almost all the girls who enters inside the cafe alone or with a girl gang.
  1. Go straight towards her with a smile on your face and tell her ” You are the most beautiful girl in this club and trust me I don’t usually say this to anybody.”
  2. Note: You can use the next step using the Clever Approach as well.
  3. Ask her to dance with you for 1 minute. Do mention the exact time so that she starts taking things easy and light.

Do not stand beside a girls group and start dancing like a creep! This is usually a turn off for most of the girls.

What Is The Perfect Outfit For The Cafe That Stays Open Till Late Night?

Wear decent dark blue jeans or black jeans with a plain slim-fit White T-shirt with Black High Ankle sneakers or normal sneakers.

outfit for clubbing in delhi

AVOID: wearing loose T-shirts.

If you have a little tummy popping out then go for a plain white shirt and blue jeans or a Black shirt with grey trousers or Jeans.

Remember: Look simple but CLASSY !!

Once you have started talking to a girl inside the cafe and she also seems to be interested in talking to you then ask her out for the after-party plans!

How to ask her for the after-party plans?
  1. You can probably ask her like “So, Do you have any plans for the after-party? I googled about a few more clubs that stay open till 5 in the morning. Do you know any night clubs here?” She will probably start giving you the names of the club because she probably thinks you’re new to Delhi so you’re safe for her.
  2. But, if you follow the real approach then let her know about other cool places you know and ask her “To hang out with you a little more before we could go back home.”
Now Comes The Last Part…I’m sure you can pick up girls in Delhi if you follow every step with style. 

You can Either ask her to join you for the house party or Ask her to go with you to a night club. Make sure you don’t force the next meeting on the same day. If it’s happening, go with the flow!

But, if she is not totally into the plan. You may let her go after asking for her Instagram handle and move on to the next girl! You can probably text her later on Instagram and ask her out online because there are chances that girls feel more comfortable after exploring your profile online! Make sure you set your Instagram profile properly so that, you can easily pick any girls in Delhi. 

THIS is how you can pick up girls in Delhi by chilling around 10 P.M. in Summer house cafe and end up large by chilling or partying till 4 A.M. in the Night Club.

For more tips and tricks follow @datingkitab on Instagram. We are coming up with more surprises. Stay tuned.

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Heartbreaks are better than one night stand | Real Story


  • It all started after the breakup . The breakup hit me very hard because she was found double dating .
  • The relationship lasted for 3 years and came to an end on 8th feb , 2016. From that day onwards , I started hating love and did not believe anyone .
  • I was afraid to go back to my single life because I was so attached to her and could not even think of staying without her .
  • She moved on happily and I took 2 years.
  • Relationships are beautiful but breakup is the gift to you from god. It depends that how you take it? You can either feel depressed about it or you can make yourself a better person so that your ex should see what she is missing.
  • Me and my ex were so close to each other , we used to share everything. She was always there for me whenever I needed someone . I used to tell her about my day and vice versa .
  • Some people think relationships gives you stress and kills your precious time . I strongly disagree , relationships gives you stability and security.
  • It makes you feel strong and loved . Some things are there which you cannot share with your family and friends but you can comfortably share it with your partner with complete trust that is why relationships are beautiful!
  • Stress comes in the relationship when two people separates . My ex used to make fun of my body and this was the reason she moved to some other guy after 3 years .

But why do I still feel that relationship and heartbreak is still better than a One night stand ?

  • When I decided to move on , Most of my friends asked me to go for one night stand with a random person .
  • It sounded cool and  I believe that we only get one life so I decided to go for it .
  • We both were smoking together in a hotel room and  having fun as if we know each other since ages.
  • It was very hard for me to share a bed with a random person so I closed my eyes and started imagining my ex while I was kissing her.
  • She kissed me hard with her eyes closed and grabbed me tightly . I noticed something is definetly wrong .
  • I pushed her away and asked her to play some good music on my laptop .
  • We both were listening to music and then I started talking to her . I wanted to hold a good conversation  so that I could find  the  reason behind her one night stand .

There is a ridiculous irony of online dating . We assume that people on online dating apps are unfaithful . 90 percent of people started using online dating apps after breakup who were actually loyal with their partner .

  • Similarly the girl who was with me in a hotel room was also going through a heartbreak  .
  • One night stand is never a solution to move on . It will ruin your image and nature as well .
  • Two people get a chance to talk about their love session when they are in a relationship and this turns out to be beautiful and secure .
  • In one night stand , the moment you guys step out of the room everything changes and then you never talk about it .
  • One night stands are for unstable people who lost faith in love .
This blog is a message to all those people in the same boat.Please wait for the good things to happen , don’t change yourself for anyone . Love do exist but some things takes time . Keep yourself busy and move on with a smile on your face rather than getting involved in the dark world where you will find no love for real. cheers !
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13 Reasons why girls won’t hookup with you !

I asked different girls about that one particular reason that why you will never hookup . Everyone was so curious to answer this because they seems to be really unhappy with such type of guys .
Every girl has different opinion . Take a look at all those real reasons why a girl won’t hookup with you !

#1  If he stinks or has bad breath !

This girl says that she will never hookup with a guy who brush only once a day . She finds it bit repulsive and might end up gifting you a toothbrush on your birthday !!
She wants the guy to be hygienic . She will never come close to you if you smell bad . Don’t forget to use the best perfume before you meet anyone for hookup!!

#2 Visible Nose hair is a big turn off

 If you are taking care of your beard and hairstyle then don’t forget to get rid of your nose hair as well. It’s a big turn off for a girl if she sees those tiny hair coming out of your nose !!

#3  If you follow Anil Kapoor !!

Imagine you are going for a hookup with a girl wearing your favourite white shirt leaving 2 button open from the top and your curly chest hair is popping out . She will give you the lame excuse and leave happily.

#4  Stop talking Non Sense

She said that it’s a big turn off when guys starts talking about hookups in the begining and ends up talking about relationship goals . Stop talking Non sense , You asked her out for hookup and all of a sudden you want to wife her.

#5  Bad Sense of Humor

Bad sense of Humor and on the other hand terrible sounding laugh on your own jokes is turning her off!

#6  Show OFF!!

You are constantly turning her off if you keep talking about yourself and your khandani paisa ! If you guys want to hookup then stick to it , don’t try to bahu zone her with all your money.

#7  Mummy ko bolo complan pilaye ! Short Height is a turn off !!

Girls understand that height is not in your hands , she will be happy to be around you but she won’t let you slide inside her ! Short height is a big turn off for most of the girls!

#8  She needs the D not your moon and stars!

This girl says that she hates guys who starts the conversation with cheesy lines about moon and stars. She is here to hookup with you , don’t be such a gentlemen at this time . It kills the vibe and makes everything weird!!

#9 She hates Poor Grammar!

Girls can get turned off with poor grammar as well and I swear if you will use (your) and (you’re) incorrectly then you ain’t getting any BJ!!

#10 Your Pube Like Beard!

Not every guy needs to have beard . Pube like curly Beard is not at all happening . Move on guys , this is turning her off again.

#11 Your Dress Sense !!

This girl said that she goes through all the pictures of a guy before hooking up with him and notice his clothes and shoes as well. shabby and ill-fitting clothes can disgust her . Again, this is basic stuff, but it comes up so often. Guys: wash your clothes! Buy some that fit! Rinse and repeat!

#12  Not only humping , Treadmill is important too!

Smoking and drinking all the time and braging about it is turning her off again . She will appreciate you more if you keep everything balanced and take care of your health as well.

#13 So many ‘ I got laid stories ‘ !

Don’t brag so much about your past  , She can easily get guys like you  ! You should learn to keep secrets , she will find it really immature  if you will flaunt too much about your past sex stories . She would love to know about your style but she don’t want to know how other girls felt hooking up with you!!

We could discover only 13 reasons yet . If you have more reasons on your mind DM us on Instagram @mymansecret . We will post it on our story and blog as well .

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9 Reasons why a guy won’t hookup with you

Imagine you like that guy a’lot but he refuses to hookup with you ! Can a guy do that ? Yes he can . This blog post will tell you the real reasons why he will not hookup with you . Hookup is the new bond in our generation where two people meet to have a good time without any commitments. But It doesn’t mean hookups can happen easily . There can be times where your partner comes to see you and runs away . This article will give you all those reasons why a guy will refuse to hookup with you !! These were the reasons given to me by different guys.

#1  She should split the bill 

This guy said that he builds up the conversation with a girl and make different plans to meet for example watching a movie , going out for dinner ,etc  .

  • This guy will make only such plans where payment can be done online .
  •  In his recent case , he matched with a girl on tinder , started talking a’lot and made plans for movie where he pitched to book a movie ticket , as there was no response from the other side for the payment , this guy lost interest in her and started ignoring her .
  • It’s a turn off for some guys when girls don’t even initiate for making the payment .
  •  Guys don’t want the girls to pay full , they want to split or they just want there girl to talk about making a payment. It’s more than enough for such guys to show interest in you .

#2  She should be easy 


  • This guy says that there should be equal response from both the sides .
  • The girl should not show any attitude since the beginning if she wants to hookup as well.
  • Basically , guys gets relationship vibes whenever the girl starts acting weird , rude or arrogant. They want the girl to stay naughty the moment conversation starts and such guys want there girls to talk dirty whenever they are texting each other  .
  • It’s a turn off for the guys who don’t like to invest there time much on relationship and that is why they want things to be easy otherwise they will start losing interest if you will take time to jump on to conclusions.

#3 She Should Not be Ugly

  • This is the only guy who don’t care about anything in the world.
  • He just wants his partner to be pretty.
This guy said :
I want to flaunt my hookup buddy in front of my friends , so I don’t care about other things. She should be pretty so that my friends don’t make fun of me.

#4  She should be allowed for Night Out 

  • This guy will lose interest in you the moment you say “Abba nai manenge ” .
  • This guy stays busy all weekdays and he only get time on weekends.
  •  If you ask him for a day out on weekend he will completely refuse and will start losing interest as well.
  •  This guy lives for weekends where he gets to sleep all day and party all night.

#5  When the girl is crazy about sex


  • This guy says that he is always worried about his performance and dick size , If such guys finds a girl online who is crazy about sex and dick pictures then he will not show interest in you.
  • This happens because this guy is not confident enough about his dick size and performance .
  • This guy will always go for girls who pretend to be scared of sex but later it happens easily haha . This is a trick to make such guys comfortable !!

#6  When She says ” No Oral Sex “

  • This guy said that if a girl refuses to go down on her or if she refuses to go down on him then he starts losing interest in her.
  • Such guys will hold the good conversation and have sex chat where they will take out all the details about you going down or not .

#7 If she don’t smoke up or drink

  • This guy will lose interest in you if you don’t smoke up weed or hash . He will proactively ask whether you drink or not  .
  • If you refuse to drink as well then he will never meet you.

#8 When there is no Emotional Bond

  • This guy said that he is totally in for hookup but he still needs some spark and emotional bond otherwise he won’t get erection.
  • He wants little feelings before he gets laid with the other person .
  •  If he don’t find that emotional connection with you then he won’t meet you.

#9 Multiple dates are a Big No

  • On behalf of all the guys, this goes for everyone . No guy wants to go for multiple dates outside if he just wants to hookup with you.
  • The moment you ask him to meet for a movie for the second date , he will vanish . It’s not his fault , he is not looking for a relationship .
  • But girls , if you are looking for a relationship , then do take him out on multiple dates , if he agrees to all the dates then he is the right one because good things takes time.

Only 9 reasons have been discovered yet . If you guys have any other reason in mind then DM us on Instagram  @Mymansecret  . I will post it on my story and blog post as well . ( Anonymously for sure ) . cheers!!

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OYO room is the new I love you ?


Sometimes I feel like tinder and oyo rooms  are collaborating and killing real love. If you have ever went to the oyo room with your boyfriend , this article is for you !

  • You can either take this as an advice to ask out your dream girl for fun  and girls can get an idea about  how to avoid such kind of boys .
  • These days love is hard to find , but tinder made it very easy . Isn’t it ?
  • Tinder made it very easy to meet new people, but it is very hard to find real love .
  • Everyone is running there fingers on each other’s picture and deciding who is hot or not ?
  • And after getting a match the first question on everybody’s mind is  why tinder?
  • Everyone will have different answers but there answer will always end with the statement please don’t judge.
  • Irony is , you all are already judging each other on the basis of looks !
  • Oyo room comes in the picture after few days and some desperate will  take few minutes to take you there.
  • If there is a match on the tinder , and the guy is approaching you by using sweet pickup lines which is still fine and healthy .
  • But , what if he says I hate to go out in public , let’s book a room and have a good time where we can Netflix and Chill  ?
I’m sure everyone loves to have a good time, but if you are looking for some serious thing on tinder, don’t land up with such guys no matter how attractive he is , I understand you start liking each other but always remember good things takes time.