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Sex From Nepal – Episode 1

It’s a beautiful weekend and I matched with a girl this morning on Bumble who is from Nepal but stays in Delhi, it’s just one picture that she uploaded on her dating profile that put me in doubt if it’s a real account or not.

But surprisingly, she sent me her Whatsapp number and we talked for some time and decided to meet tonight.

She stayed in California for a long time and sex was a very important part of her life. I usually do not see things go so quickly in Delhi but this is different and exciting,

We have a plan to go out for a drive tonight and if things go right, I will get laid tonight.

It’s the time and I’m going to pick her up from Vasant Kunj, New Delhi at 10 o’clock.

She sat in the car and I couldn’t stop looking at her, She was wearing a beautiful black one-piece and her skin was glowing so much. She already turned me on with her beautiful face, Juicy thick lips and her crazy accent.

“We do not have a destination, let’s go wherever we can,” I said to her.

But all we could see is barricades and Policemen stopping us everywhere in the middle of the night.

She was comfortable with me by this time, we rolled a joint and smoked up together. It was 12:30 in the night and she asked me to come home.

I’m excited to go because all I could think about is going deep inside her and make her cum multiple times all night.

We went to her place together, It was a huge building in front of me and there I could see her balcony full of beautiful lights.

We both went inside, it was a huge apartment and I was surprised to know that her sister was in another room. She already knew that there’s a guy coming in tonight.

Her sister was accompanied by another friend who got both of us another big fat joint and we all smoked up together again.

She treated me like a guest and got a glass of whiskey for me. My match did not even close the door and she came towards me.

She kept her hot naked legs on my lap and started playing some music. I’m not able to take my eyes off those beautiful feet and legs. I so want to kiss her right now, but I waited.

We shared different stories, she shared how a random guy wanted to lick her pussy and she finds it really exciting so she agreed to it.

It was 2 in the night and she asked me what’s next?

I’m stupid and I told her that I will have to go home. I fucked up everything after such a nice time. I was so disappointed and did not even realise what I just said.

But, she expressed and said “It’s very rude to say this to a girl”

and I ended up pushing her against the wall and kissed her really deep.

The kiss from a Nepali girl was different and unique, she was literally eating and licking my lips, we both were grinding and moaning while kissing really deep and licking each other lips like it’s the best candy in the world.

I undressed her, grabbed her boobs and spread her legs and put my rock hard throbbing dick deep inside her. She rolled her eyes and complimented my dick.

We fucked for hours and her legs started shaking. She wanted me to stop but her hot body made me want more of her.

She is asking me to talk dirty in Hindi. Born and brought up in Nepal, stayed in California for a long time but Hindi sex was a huge turn on for her.

I did everything she wanted me to do and she returned back the favour with a sloppy blowjob and took all my cum in her mouth.

I was exhausted but she treated me like a king and laid around my dick and played with it for a long time. The night was about to get over, but we had different plans for the future. Maybe, a threesome or it could be an orgy or maybe she just wants me to leave because she’s already dating someone and she is guilty of cheating on his guy.

The real truth comes out in the Next Episode.

—To be Continued–

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True Long Distance Relationship Story. Works With 10+ Tips!

Long Distance Relationship is bothering you?

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A long distance relationship starts when your partner decides to choose their career over love.

This thought about them choosing their career first can make you feel alone in the process. That is why a lot of long distance relationship fails.

Why People Break Up Before even Long Distance Relationship Starts?

It could be due to the following reasons:

  1. You can’t handle the distance.
  2. You do not trust your partner from far away.
  3. You were never ready for it.
  4. You are emotionally weak to handle a distance.
  5. You do not want to wait for someone while they decide to focus on themselves.
  6. You do not want to move out with them in the future.
  7. You do not love them.

Yes, People do fall apart even before Long distance relationship starts.

We Share True Instances:
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She broke the news to me about her future plans when I was in a relationship for more than 7 months.

It was hard to accept the reality that she will fly away from me forever because she wanted that life more than me.

It’s even harder to accept the change when you are someone who feels strong and happy when you have your partner by your side.

It even sucks when you never wanted this in your life and you just wish to fall back in time to stop yourself from falling in love with this person who you may never see again.

But, it was going to happen and there is no way you could stop it. It’s even worse when you love that person so much and all you can do is just pray and wish the best for them.

Is it Fair To Stop them from going away?

Just like you, I supported my girl and did not even ask her once to stay with me. In your mind, you want them to stay but your heart wants things to happen their way because you can’t see them sad at all.

We were together in India for more than 16 months until she left me and moved to the USA.

A long distance relationship can never be fun for people like me. Maybe, you can relate with me probably that’s why you landed upon my article.

I’m a very emotional person who can break down very easily when I don’t have my loved ones around.

I grew up with a bad past that made me dependent on love so much that is why I stop thinking about myself when it comes to love.

What kind of nature can make long distance relationship hard for you?

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I stop prioritising my goals, my family and my health when I feel like people don’t want me the way I want them.

It’s a turn off for strong people in this generation and I appreciate their way of living. This is the type of attitude you need to survive in today’s generation.

People have just given the term “long distance relationship” to love which diverts us away from the true meaning of it.

There is no term like true love. It’s just ‘Love’ and when you experience Love, there is nothing that can ever make you guys fall apart.

Long distance relationship is just a situation that is just a part of your love. It’s a test where you realise their true worth and it always works if the other person feels the same about you.

Why is distance bothering you?

The fact that they have a new life now and they will experience everything new scares you if they will miss you the way like you do.

The ugly truth is they may not feel the same and that is why you get that question in your mind whether a long distance relationship works or not?

It’s hard for you to focus on yourself the same way you used to do when you had your partner around you because you feel alone in the process and it’s okay to feel that way.

Is it worth having a long distance relationship with them?
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You’re not selfish or wrong here, you just need to communicate how you feel about all this and the person in love on the other side of the world will make you feel better even from far away.

But if they do not understand this simple thing what you’re going through and blame you for not being understanding then it’s not the person you deserve!

Watching you in pain due to distance and fighting about not being understanding shows that this person is just testing your patience.

You yourself know if this relationship would work or not. But, once you figure out the reality I would request you to act accordingly and do not lose yourself in the process of loving someone.

How can you make a long distance relationship work?

A) Stop Expecting ‘too’ much but do not stop Expecting!
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Things do change and you need to accept that. Try not to feel alone in this process and do not start expecting too much from your partner to make you feel better all the time about your thoughts and emotions.

They have new challenges every day and they might get exhausted handling the relationship at the same time. Expecting them to tell you about their day is a fair expectation that every long distance relationship needs.

But, It is unwise to be overly “sticky” and possessive. You two don’t really have to communicate 12 hours a day to keep the relationship going. Many couples think that they need to compensate for the distance by doing more. This is not true. And it might only make things worse. Soon you would get tired of “loving.”

B) It’s Just a Situation!
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“If you want to live together, you first need to learn how to live apart.” – Anonymous

Instead of thinking that this long distance relationship is pulling you two apart, Consider it as a learning phase for both of you. you should believe that through this experience, the both of you will be bound together even stronger in the future.

C) Communicate What You Feel
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Try to communicate your partner on your life and its happenings, and how do you feel without them.

Communicate in every way, send each other pictures, audio clips and short videos often. By putting in this kind of effort, you make the other person feel loved and attended to.

D) Get Nasty With your partner!
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I get it you are emotional about not having them around you but talking dirty to your partner is much needed.

Sexual tension is undoubtedly one of the most important things between couples. Sex a biological need, it is an emotional one as well.

Keep the spark burning by sending each other teasing texts!

E) Avoid Such Situations.
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If drinking late at night with your group of friends will displease your partner, then you should either Not do it or Tell your partner beforehand so as to reassure him/her.

If you do not reassure them then it’s only going to make your partner extra worried or extra suspicious, and of course, very upset, because you are putting him/her in a position where he/she feels powerless or lacking in control.

F) Plan Things Together
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Today you can be together virtually in many ways. Share the same screen on your laptop using Anydesk and plan to watch a movie together.

Set the same time to have food together on a video call so that you do not feel disconnected from your partner. “Take a walk together” outside while video-calling each other. Go online shopping together and buy each other gifts.

G) Do not OverThink, Try to control!
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You can self sabotage a relationship if you don’t stop overthinking about any kind of situation that does not go according to you.

I understand that some things can be out of control but overthinking stops your ability to analyse a situation and it can lead to bad decisions.

When somethings does not go according to you, try to stay off from social media as it can make you more anxious.

For example, if you are unhappy about something but you failed to communicate. Watching them uploading Reels or stories on Instagram can spoil your mood and force your mind to overthink situations that do not even exist.

H) Do not have any Filters!
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Talk about every feeling. It could be a feeling of fear, insecurity, jealousy, whatsoever. If you start hiding things from your partner, that secret will swallow you up from inside out. Don’t try to fix things all by yourself. Be open and honest with each other. Let your partner help you and give you the support you need.

I) Know what they Usually Do!
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It just makes you feel better when you know where are they busy. Share your schedule with each other because It’s helpful to know when the other person is busy and when he/she is free so that you can drop a text or make a call at the right time. You wouldn’t want to disturb your partner when he/she is in the middle of class or halfway through a business meeting.

J) Gossips!
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Talking about random shit with your partner is fun. It keeps you connected to them and it could be a great stress buster for a long distance relationship. You can Keep each other updated on each other’s friends and family as well.

K) Plan a Visit!
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After a long wait, you finally get to meet each other to fulfil all the little things like kissing, holding hands, etc. which are all common to other couples but so very special and extra intimate for people in long distance relationships.

It will be like fireworks and butterflies everywhere!

One does not make a long distance relationship work without putting efforts into it. You open up your heart to someone who is not even next to you.

It takes a lot of courage and strength to be part of this situation but once you are together in the future, it will all be worth it. Cheers!

Dating Tips

What kind of a guy do women appreciate?

There’s a quick cheat sheet to be the type of guy that every woman would appreciate.

Dating Kitab believes that there are different kind of people in society and everybody has their way of approaching someone. There are girls who might like you or appreciate you but they won’t ever confess.

Here’s a piece of advice, You should not chase someone so much because you might lose your worth. If anybody Is not confessing about their feelings for you or not putting in efforts to appreciate what you do for them, then you should LEAVE!

We don’t want you to go out of the way to get her appreciation because that’s a great loss of energy and it will make you unhappy!

What we are trying to say is that you should first appreciate yourself because constantly impressing a girl can turn her off but if you show that you have your own life and got things to do, it will attract a woman!

The busy guy is a very hot personality in today’s working environment. Showing off your parents money can only work with gold diggers. It can get you a pussy but it won’t help you find a true partner!

  1. So, you need to be real.
  2. YOU need to be a good listener.
  3. You need to try and have a conversation where she gets to speak more about herself because this way she would feel more connected to you. At least, do it in the initial days because women really appreciate it.
  4. Do not be rude to someone if they do not show interest in you. Instead, you should also build your mindset in such a way so that you can exit from rejection with class.

Because , I believe you are a part of a dating kitab family , then you must be a classy guy who will never be affected even if she goes away! 😉

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Things That Makes You an Unhygienic Stoner!

Hey, stoners/Baaabaaaa! we are talking about you here.

Here are the few things that we have all heard about Big time Stoners:

  1. Stoners are very chilled out.
  2. They won’t pick a fight.
  3. Even if their friends are involved in a fight, they might watch it with their little eyes open and keep on wondering why are they so loud!
  4. They are probably high or smoking up right now and reading this article with some good ass music in the background.

But In this article, we will be sharing short research and facts about stoners that you won’t probably give a fuck about but a lot of people feel this way around you.

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Do You think that STONERS are Hygenic?
Do You think that STONERS are Hygenic?
Do You think that STONERS are Hygenic?

Hygenic Stoners do exist but they are rare. In this article, we will list out few points that will help you recognise an unhygienic Stoner.

1. Stuff and Nails

Big time STONERS are the sweetest when you compare them to a newbie who just started smoking up because they won’t mind crushing stuff for you.

Their stuff might get stuck inside their nails but they will pull it out, mix it with the stuff and roll a good ass joint for you.

You enjoy watching that rolled joint so much that you end up having a great smoke up session.

2. Delayed Shower But It’s the only way out!

They will skip taking bath for a long time because STONERS are probably laying down on their couch all day staying high and satisfying their munchies!

The only motivation to take bath is to smoke up that rolled joint during Shower or Some STONERS might enjoy their Joint more post Shower.

3. Not Accepting The Side Effects

Every STONER will tell you that smoking up is better than smoking Cigarettes. But, Deep inside they all know that Smoking is harmful either way.

“There is no side effect!” my stoner friend said to me while smoking up a blunt. I looked at him and agreed with what he was saying because Stoners don’t even remember what happened the other day.

They sometimes mix yesterday’s event with some other day and gets confused to figure out exactly when this thing happened with them.

Marijuana Affects your Memory but STONERS won’t agree because they probably do not remember anything to give a fuck about!

4. What’s Clean?

They may forget to keep their surroundings clean but their Ashtray, Rolling Paper, Stuff and Crusher will be remain up to the mark!

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Dating Tips

This type of guy will pretend that he cares for you.

Wondering what kind of a guy pretends to take care of you? You will get a glimpse of how these guys behave in this article!

1. Gives you a missed call in the morning.

You’re probably in a deep sleep every morning. He’ll Drop a short call twice or thrice when you’re asleep along with a small good morning message on your WhatsApp. This way you will wake up with a guilt wondering that you didn’t respond on time and this will probably make you feel like He cares for you so much but it’s YOU who failed to give him the same response.

2. Make Plans and never execute.

He would talk about going out with you, Plan trips with you and probably jerk off talking about the things he would do to your body while on a trip. After he cums, he would probably never plan such things and book another oyo room for the next weekend.

3. Talking about how busy he is

He will probably never text you first and always reply you back after few hours with an excuse or an apology to text you late. He will probably show up like “Oh, I’m so sorry, I just got so busy with family, I missed you so much”. He will probably ghost you again once you agree to talk to him and he jerks off to another sexual conversation between you guys.

4. Won’t talk about your day.

You will keep on asking him about different things but he will never take the details about your day because he’s not interested in you the same way like you are. But he won’t accept it and continue to entertain you in breaks.

These are a few out of so many points that prove that he just pretends to take care of you. If you need daily dating tips, Relationship Advice and Dating stories then subscribe to this blog below.


Indian girls and their Sexual chat preferences!

Wondering How To Have A Sexual Chat With an Indian Girl?

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Figuring out her Sexual chat preference helps you to understand her fantasy! It can also give you an idea about what kind of sex your Partner prefers!

Many people have done sex chat once in their life but not everyone enjoys doing it because they don’t connect with what their partner wants to communicate and that is why sexting fails!

In this article, we will unleash all the different type of sex chat that Indian girls prefer.

It is totally fine to ask your partner about their sexual chat preferences. Once you both start communicating about your sexual needs, things will be different and good for you!

In this article, you will learn:

What kind of sex chat do Indian girls like?

There are 7 types of sexual chats:

1. RolePlay Sexual chat!

In this sexual chat, she would want you to be her teacher, a doctor or maybe a random room service guy.

It turns her on because it gives her a feeling that she is getting sexual with a stranger. It is usually loved by those Indian girls who loves to be treated roughly in bed.

2. Romantic Sexual chat!

This is a sweet sex chat where she wants to be loved slowly and then get rough later in the text. She wants you to talk about how you will come close to her and wrap her in your arms and then undress her slowly in text.

This type of sex chat demands a feel where she actually wants to be touched by you and this type of Indian girl would start a sex chat with you if she really trust you and feels comfortable around you.

3. Hindi Sexual chat!

This is the fantasy loved by so many girls but not everyone accepts it honestly because it’s Hot and Gross at the same time!

Every guy would want to have a hindi sex chat with their partner once in their life but its hard to find girls who would prefer this type of Sexual chat or even if she prefers Hindi sexual chat, she might not communicate about it ever.

she would enjoy this sexual chat if you will use every sexual term in hindi without getting shy Otherwise, She will get turned off and feel bad about herself for accepting her fantasy.

4. Location Sex chat!

This type of Indian girls loves it when you mention different places where you would love to drill her. It could be the shopping mall washroom, a quickie in a car or the corner of the sofa.

But mentioning the location and making her feel like she’s present there will turn her on so much!

5. Threesome Sexual chat!

This type of girl would want to talk about a situation where you both get caught by someone else watching you having sex and that person wants to join in.

This type of sexual chat will involve you and that random person. This doesn’t means that she wants to have threesome for sure but she likes to imagine it in her mind.

6. Stoners sexual chat!

This type of girl is a big-time stoner and she would want you to talk about the good stuff you smoke or Snort.

She has never done sex without getting high and she would want you to Start texting her with a situation where you guys are doing toxic substances like marjuana and then getting sexual on text.

This would want her to meet you and chill with you.

7. Snapchat Me!

She likes to exchange pictures whenever you get sexual virtually. She might even ask you to striptease for her on snapchat.

She might come and meet you for real if she is sure about how you look and how clean you keep your body because all this while she was checking out how hygienic you stay in real life. We are talking about the body hair, haircut and how well you keep your private body parts clean.

Dating Tips

Algorithm Cracked: 30+ Matches On Bumble In A Day.

Bumble run on a set of codes. Once you understand that, you crack the bumble algorithm than can help you get a match on Bumble easily!

You must be wondering, How we can get you 30+ matches on Bumble in a day? Our blog won’t claim anything that is not true.

In This Article You’ll learn about:

How To Get A Match On Bumble?

How To Crack Bumble’s Algorithm?

See, We Totally Understand…….

We know it is hard for you guys to believe that you can get 30+ matches on Bumble in a day with this technique! But, guess what? It’s absolutely possible to get a match on Bumble quickly because Just like a regular website or any other application, Bumble also runs on various codes that are also referred to as an algorithm or bumble algorithm.

In order to understand this technique, you need to stick to this article till the last part. Our last part is a result of all the steps mentioned below:

Note: This Technique works 100 per cent if you create a new account. In order to apply this technique to your current account, you will see a certain delay in the process but it will work!


A) Take Advantage Of Bumble’s Spotlight Mode:

Note: Bumble SpotLight mode is active only for 30 minutes. It will help you to get a match on Bumble.

  1. Keep the pictures ready for the Bumble profile and upload them as soon the account starts.
  2. Write the bio immediately and verify the Bumble account.
  3. Note: We need to set up our profile immediately because bumble spotlight tries to display new profile on the top for the girls to see for 30 minutes in the beginning for free!

But, Does Bumble spotlight feature actually helps you to get a match on Bumble?

It will help you to get a few matches on Bumble but your profile will start to die after some time and you may get few or no matches at all on Bumble. But don’t worry, if you are wondering how to get matches on Bumble easily then keep following the steps mentioned below and notice the results immediately!

It does not matter even if the bumble spotlight mode is finished. All the steps will help you to get matches on bumble even though it’s an old Bumble profile or the new. one.

B) Delete Bumble Pictures And Bio also Re-Upload them!

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Bumble is basically a stack of profiles. In order to get a match on Bumble. You need to push your profile on the top of the stack, you need to wake up your profile! Deleting your bumble pictures, bios and re-uploading it will push your profile on the top and you will have 30 per cent more chances to get a match on Bumble.

Where did the other 70 per cent chance go? You can make it 100 per cent if you follow all the steps correctly!

C) Set Bumble “Interested In” section to Men!

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Even if it’s not your preferred gender, you should switch your interested section to men for at least 5 minutes to get a match on Bumble. You will notice a lot of right swipes from so many guys that will increase the value of your profile.

In other words, you will have a hot bumble profile!

D) Set Bumble “Interested In” section to Everyone!

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In order to get more matches on bumble back to back, you need to set your bumble interested in section to Everyone this time.

Once you make your Bumble profile visible to both the genders, your profile will become free from all the codes running behind the application and you will have the maximum attention.


  1. Keep your profile open to both the genders for another 5 minutes.
  2. This will increase the value of your bumble profile very quickly!
What’s Next?

E) Finally Set Bumble “Interested In” section to Women!

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The wait is over! You have pushed your profile to the top. Every other girl will see your profile, it’s for them to decide if they should swipe you left or right.

But, your profile will not remain dead at all. In order to get the 30+ or more matches on bumble in a day, you need to perform these steps immediately when you create a bumble profile! (Works for all Bumble Profile, time doesn’t matter).

Basic FAQ:

Q1. Does this work only during Bumble spotlight mode?

Answer: It works the best for accounts that will be created for the first time because you get the bumble spotlight for at least 30 minutes in the beginning. If you follow all the steps immediately, you will increase the value of your bumble profile more quickly!

Q2. Does This technique work for accounts that are created a long time back?

Answer: Yes, this works for all kind of bumble profile. All the steps are followed in order to increase the value of the profile. These techniques are used to bring your profile on top no matter how old or new your account is.

Q3. How many times do I need to repeat this process?

Answer: You can repeat it Every time you’re wondering that you are getting no matches at all. It is 100 per cent guaranteed and experienced that once you perform all these steps, your Bumble profile will be on top of every girl’s profile. But, in the end, it’s for them to decide if they wants to swipe you left or right. But, every woman around you will see your profile on top. It won’t be a dead account anymore.

Q4. Do I need to change the interested section of the bumble profile in the same manner?

Yes, you should switch to “Men” first and then select “Everyone” and in the end, you need to switch the interested section to “Women” and get back to back matches every time you swipe right!

All the techniques mentioned above will help you get a match on Bumble really fast.


Now comes the last part, I’m sure you will try all the steps mentioned above in order to get a match on Bumble. But, it still depends on a girl to decide if they would like to swipe you left or right. In order to stand out your bumble profile, you can follow the below-mentioned techniques.

  1. Explore what women are uploading on their profiles. This will help you to set up your profile according to what women are looking for.
  2. For example, Some people women write bios like ” I’m looking for someone who won’t mind having ice cream with me”, “Sapiosexual” , “Guys who love dogs!”.
  3. You can customise your bio accordingly and write bios like ” I’m sapiosexual”, “Looking for someone who would go out with me for ice cream” and “I love dogs”.
  4. This will connect you guys and help you to get a match on Bumble.

You can also have a look at tinder’s algorithm in order to get more matches on tinder easily!

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How to get a match on Bumble | How to get more matches on Bumble | Bumble | Bumble Algorithm

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Dating Tips

What zodiac signs are the best one to date?

Wondering What Zodiac Signs To Date?

Do you believe in Zodiac Signs Just Like me?

We like to consider so many factors that contribute who we end up
dating, and whether you believe it or not our zodiac sign reveals a
a lot about us when it comes to dating and relationships.
According to astrology, each zodiac sign possesses a set of unique
features and personalities. And we are here to help you decide
what zodiac sign is the best one to date!

Zodiac Sign Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Being the first of the zodiac wheel, Aries always marks the beginning – and this beginning is the most competitive of the bunch. The three signs you are most likely to date are Gemini, Sagittarius and Aquarius. With your date, you will feel passionate and adventurous also, share an unspoken mutual understanding to a great degree.

Zodiac Sign Virgo (Aug 23 – Sept 22)

The Virgo date is extremely cautious and analyzes each step before they decide to take it. The three signs you are most likely to date are Taurus, Cancer and Capricorn. You won’t live ornately but, your love will be deep and special. Together you will share a sense of ambition, dedication and a unique approach to living.

Zodiac Sign Sagittarius (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

The energetic, open-minded Sagittarius is the biggest adventurist amongst all the zodiac signs. The three signs you are most likely to date are Aries, Gemini, and Aquarius. The Sagittarius are extremely optimistic, enthusiastic and extrovert. Travel the world together, party hard- nothing is off-limits. Give this sign space and they’ll make you as happy as they can be.

In This Article We Mentioned About:

People Who Believe In Zodiac Signs | Best Zodiac Signs To Date | Zodiac Sign

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If you’re about to enter in a long distance relationship. Read this

If you’re about to enter in a long distance relationship then you’re definitely worried and tensed about the new phase of the relationship. I’m in a same boat and it requires courage and a lot of trust to agree for a long distance relationship.

It breaks your heart because your partner will be away from you in some time and you need to understand how to cope up with it. To be very honest, it’s very hard to control your emotions because it makes you feel weak when your other half is planning to go abroad to start a new life. It hurts more in a long distance relationship if you’re the one who’s going to bid them off at the airport.

I understand where you are coming from because even I’m about to enter in a long distance relationship.

I ended up smoking and drinking a lot in order to reduce the pain inside my heart that keeps bothering me everyday after my girlfriend broke the news about her plans. It feels like somebody just stabbed you at the back. I’m sure you’re also damaged and depressed like me because you love your partner so much that the fact about staying away from them scares you a lot.

It may increase your anxiety and you may feel lonely already thinking about them going away from your life anytime soon.

You’re the best person if you landed up on this article because you are affected and hurt. You know it sucks to lose someone and you can’t give up on people easily and you expect the same from your partner.

But due to past experiences, we all need reassurance. Infact, I need confirmation from my partner about never leaving me alone in a long distance relationship a billion times because I care and love that person so much and it’s so hard to think about them going away from your life all of a sudden.

you’re very strong and optimistic if you agreed to continue the second phase of your relationship. It’s hard to be part of such a journey where you constantly feels like hugging and kissing your partner and make love to them at least once or twice in a month.

Long distance relationship will not have these perks. This scares you even more and you end up imagining your partner cheating on you.

It’s all in your head. Such assumptions can push your partner away from you and they may not share anything about their day once they are away from you because you may end up fighting about every thing if you won’t whole heartedly trust and believe your partner.

I totally get it that long distance relationship is hard. You and your partner may get a lot of cravings to be physically close but due to distance it can’t happen anymore.

What do you need to do in such case? You need to run away from distractions and invest your time in achieving your goals because your partner will do the same.

Due to their new phase in life, your partner will need a best friend. Do not bombard them with calls once they go to a new place. Your partner will be facing new challenges everyday already.

Make your partner feel like that you’re not just a lover but also a best friend with whom they can share each and everything. This will reduce their stress and it will bring your partner more close to you even though you are far away from each other.

Stop assuming negative stuff and believe what you agreed on. Do not forget to communicate. Fix a time to call them up everyday, watch movies with them on video call and talk about their new life and support them. I know you’re a bigger person to understand so many things about them when all you’re expecting is just loyalty.

Try not to get any negative thoughts when they are busy or not answering your Calls. This is the biggest reason why a fight would start and it may push your partner away from you if it’s start getting hectic.

Keep it nice and simple, it’s definitely hard but it’s not impossible. Long distance relationship helps you realise the real worth of spending time together.

Try not to express what you’re assuming all the time. Discuss the real facts and communicate politely.

If they want you to be part of their journey. It means they love you. They know how hard it’s for you to agree on long distance relationship. But your partner wants you to believe in them.

Stop worrying and be happy that you guys met. You barely meet people these days who try to hold on to each other. Long distance relationship is hard but it will be the best part of your life once everything falls into place.

Do not stop communicating and keep your egos aside. Make them feel like you’re their best friend and you’re always their for them no matter what.

You will get through this and it will be all be worth it.

Dating Tips

How to Behave with a Girlfriend on a First Date

Excited about the first date? Absolutely. But how to deal with the inevitable apprehensions on the first date? Our advice, Be Yourself.

Having said that, let’s focus on our behavior to make a solid first impression which leads you to the second date with someone you like most.

Gentlemen! Let the Game begin.

1. Dress to the nines.

Do not show up in an old jean or trouser contrasting amazingly with your old sneakers and a shaggy beard. Be a man instead- groom your face wears a tactical shirt with tapered trouser and nice shoes. Also, it wouldn’t kill you to take shower that day.

2. Don’t be late.

Don’t be the loser shows up 10 minutes late and ruin the excitement. Instead be there a few minutes and you might score the perfect table, after all she is special.

3. Confident and focused.

Greet your date warmly. Offer her the seat before you sit. Compliment her beauty. Maintain proper posture, look into her eyes. Smile when talking along with light hand gestures. Put your phone on silent mode and upside-down on the table.

4. Maintain two-way communications.

You are not there to attend a Ted-Talk or a lecture. Ask her semi-general (friends, hobbies, etc) questions and share some things about yourself for you are there to understand each other in a better way.

5. Manners and etiquettes.

Talk to the waiters like a gentleman. When the food is served, wait for her to start. Always hold tissue in your left hand. Try to match her eating speed. Place the used spoon and fork parallel in the plate.

6. Offer to pay.

A foolproof way to accomplish this is to simply reach out for the check when it arrives. Do not assume that she will pay for you. If your date offers to split, do not push it and accept gratefully. You can say ‘Thank you, that’s so nice of you, next one’s on me’.

7. Suggest a second date.

Offer a suggestion about what you can do next together. Try going for a trekking or a bike ride or play a video game that you both enjoyed talking about during the date. Say goodbye with a friendly hug. Don’t expect a kiss on the first date.